On the day the first part of this account was written, I had no idea whether Wong and his wife were alive. Or whether they were condemned to be, or had already been, executed by the communist government of China.
Time was running short – it was less than a month before the 11th Asian Games in 1990 were scheduled to open in Beijing. The customary practice of the government was – and still is – to put on trial and convict a number of lawbreakers and then swiftly execute them some days before a significant event takes place in order to set an example and to warn anyone with any notions of creating trouble during the event.
And so our friends in Kaiping figured that Wong and his wife would be executed, if not before the Asian Games, then before the October 1 National Day at the latest.
I had already done what I could. I had turned to the only person I knew who was reputed to have the power it would take to change the course of events, and that was Deng (for his story, read earlier post). Two days earlier I had asked him to pull some political strings to save the lives of Wong and his wife.
I first met Wong in 1986 when Allan and I returned to Kaiping together from Canada for business reasons. In the small town of Sanfu, Allan’s hometown and capital of the county, there was a small group of young men who hung out together. Each of these young men had at least one parent who was a high government official. Allan’s father, for instance, was the Director of the Kaiping Judicial Bureau.
Even though Wong’s high-ranking father had died and the family no longer held any political influence, Wong was one of Allan’s closest friends. Wong was tall and slim, a street smart young man in his early twenties then, known as a “little big boss”. Francisca did not like the way he bullied farmers and common people. A Chinese idiom about a fox would suitably describe his manner: “a fox borrowing the tiger’s terror,” which roughly means to bully people by flaunting one’s powerful connections.
Nevertheless, in essence he was not a bad guy, only a bit young and ignorant. And over the next few years, whenever Francisca and I visited Sanfu, he was always pleasant and helpful to us. Perhaps it was because we were foreigners, particularly Francisca being a white woman, rarely seen in these more remote areas, a novelty. To him, just to be able to associate with us was an honor. He was patently eager to run any errand for us; arranging a car to go places, making sure our boat tickets to Hong Kong were reserved, changing money in the black market for us, and so on. On one occasion he plainly and rather proudly declared himself our “errand boy”.

Wong and his friends, backed by their parents’ power or influence, speculated on buying and selling automobiles. In these early days of China’s “open door” policy, private cars were extremely scarce, and these young guys were able to make use of their parents’ political status to make a big profit on trading cars. Life was very easy for them for quite a while.
That next year, Wong earned about ¥100,000. In a county like Kaiping, where the average factory worker made less than ¥200 a month, this was a huge amount. He was able to live a very good life, in his own apartment, driving a very sporty Suzuki motorcycle and dining at the best restaurants.
Not too long after, the government began to tighten up the controls on buying and selling cars, and these guys were put out of business. Wong had to scramble to find a new business.
Kaiping is well known overseas, with more of its people living abroad, mostly in the USA and Canada, than in the county itself. One time I told Wong that if ever he or any of his friends wanted to leave China, I knew a way to get a visa to go to the Bahamas from where it would be easier to arrange an entry into the States. But first he had to have a Chinese passport and at the time a Chinese passport was extremely difficult to get. He told me that in fact he had already been thinking about leaving China because his business was not doing well, and as soon as he obtained his passport, he would come to me for help.
However, after this visit to Kaiping in ‘89, we never saw Wong again.
Ten months later on a very hot autumn day, Lok, Frank and I were sitting in our hotel room in my hometown, Samheung. We were chatting about everything from history to economics to the latest world news, and, of course, fengshui.
Suddenly Lok turned to me and said: “Luksan, have you heard the latest about Wong and his wife?”
“No,” I replied, “where is he now and how is he doing?”
“Well, right now, he and his wife are in the detention house in Kaiping waiting to be tried and sentenced. The police captured them and brought them back from Macao. The way it looks, both of them are going to be executed.”
This news came to me as a shock. I asked Lok to tell me how Wong and his wife ended up where they were. This is how the story went.
Not long after I talked to Wong about helping him leave China, he had applied and gotten a passport for himself through his government connections. Before approaching me for help, though, he talked with his wife. He told her that he had decided to go to the Bahamas and from there to the USA. He had a number of relatives in San Francisco who could help him before he was able to stand on his own. He asked his wife to look after their one-year old baby and his mother, and he promised her that as soon as he could earn a living in San Francisco, he would send for her and the child.
When the wife heard his proposal, she went wild. Perhaps the fear of losing him or of living alone, or perhaps jealousy from imagining him find another woman, or a combination of all these feelings, drove her into a rage. She vehemently opposed her husband’s plan to leave China without her. She cried that if he must leave, they would leave together. Wong said there was only enough money for one person to go. She told him to let her worry about the money.
One evening a couple months later, Wong showed up at Lok’s house in the village. Wong told Lok that he was going to a far away place and had come to say goodbye. Since Wong did not know if he would return or when he would return, he asked Lok to remember him and to visit his mother and child once in a while.
Wong’s words were like those of a prisoner before going to the death chamber, full of sorrow. Lok saw that Wong’s aura was covered with clouds and misery filled his face. Lok was moved and agreed to stay in touch with the family.
Lok sensed something big was coming down and that it was not a good thing. What he really wanted to do was to stop Wong from going, but he also knew that whatever was about to happen must happen. He subsequently did a reading on Wong’s bazi (birth chart) and found that a major disaster was waiting for him in the near future: the descriptive line for the disaster was “death due to money”.
Two days later, the news traveled through Sanfu that Wong and his wife had disappeared and that the state-owned factory Wong’s wife worked in was missing ¥350,000 (about US$75K at the time) – alleged to be stolen by Wong’s wife, the accountant in that factory. The Chinese law stipulated the death penalty for anyone who “plundered” the government for more than ¥50,000. The local police were actively searching for them while their names were placed on the Most Wanted list in Guangdong.
Local interest in Wong’s case faded as time went by and there was no further news. Even Wong’s closest friends and his mother did not know his whereabouts. Life went on and everything went back to normal until several months later when the police brought Wong and his wife back from Macau. There were a number of stories flying around about how they got caught and how they were extradited, and there was no way I could verify any of these stories.
So here I continue to narrate what I was told by Lok and Frank. According to them, Wong and his wife got caught because they brought about their own destruction. After finally fleeing China to live in a free place, they had to cast themselves back into the net. It was just their fate.
For their few months in Macau, Wong lived the life of a playboy. Everyday he had nothing to do but patronize casinos and brothels. Money was not a problem because they had brought a lot from China. However, his wife was miserable because she had caught Wong with a prostitute a couple of times. She did not mind him gambling, but knowing he frequented prostitutes upset her greatly.
One day she laid down the ultimatum that if she ever caught Wong with a prostitute again, she would go to the police to report him. She told him she would rather die together with Wong than seeing him with another woman. Sure enough, some time later, she caught him red-handed again. She went to the Macau police to report him, thinking the laws of Macau were similar to those of China where a man could be arrested for exploiting prostitution.
However, when the Macau police discovered that these two were on the Most Wanted list in China, they informed the Guangdong police and let them handle the case. That same evening, armed Chinese police came into Macau to arrest Wong and his wife and took them back to Kaiping. More than three quarters of the stolen money was recovered.
Words alone could not express Wong’s wife’s regret. She knew she had committed a serious crime and she was prepared to die for it. But she lamented that her jealousy and stupidity would also cause Wong to lose his life. In the detention house in Kaiping she tried to pass a note to Wong through a guard, but the note fell into the hands of the police. In that note, she asked Wong to deny everything and let her take the blame alone so that only one, instead of two, would die.
Listening to this story made a chill run down my spine; it actually made me shiver on that hot autumn day. When Lok finished the story, the room was quiet – for some time, no one knew what to say.
Lok felt particularly bad, not only because Wong was his friend, but also because he had given his promise before Wong left. He asked me if I had any ideas that would help.
I asked Lok if Wong’s bazi showed that he would die young. The answer was affirmative.
Frank then said that they even went to Wong’s village to look at the geography. They found that there was a river running around the village that looked like a rope around a person’s neck; in other words, very bad fengshui for the whole village. They went into the village to chat with the villagers and to their astonishment they learned that many people from this village died young. Perhaps Wong was no exception.
I said to the two, “if it was meant to be this way – that Wong would die young – then there was really nothing much anyone can do to reverse the inevitable.”
Lok answered that one cannot look at it like that because there are many ups and downs in a person’s life and the extreme low points at which life could end are called check points. Some people have more check points than others. If a person can pass one check point, he can live on until his next check point. He gave the examples of people surviving a serious car accident or recovering from a major disease or surgery. But no one, of course, can pass the final check point of old age and natural death.
He went on to say that at that moment, Wong was facing a check point in his life. If he could not get through it, his life would end. But if someone could give a little push along the way, he would make it through. This helping hand is called his gui ren (noble person).
Lok explained that there is no kindness more meaningful than saving a life, and among all lives, saving a human life is the utmost act of compassion. He insisted to me to think hard to find a way to help.
I told Lok and Frank that the only person I could think of was Deng. Being the nephew of the top man in China, he was very well connected. Only he could talk to the authorities to save Wong’s life. But it was a long shot and there was no guarantee.
Lok said to me, “Just do your best, and let heaven decide.” In other words: Man proposes; God disposes.
The next morning I rushed out to Hong Kong to find Deng. He was in Shenzhen and I asked him to come out to Hong Kong to meet me because I had something very urgent that needed his help. It was really a matter of life and death.
Deng came in the afternoon and we met at the Excelsior Hotel for a drink. After I told him Wong’s story in detail, I asked if he could help. He mused for a few minutes, and then he said to me, “Okay, I’ll help you. But I cannot promise anything, because they did commit a serious crime which warrants the death penalty. I’ll call the head of the Guangdong Security Bureau to request them to commute their death sentences to life imprisonment. But I am not sure if he will give me face!”
“Deng, as long as you make that call, you have done your best. And I’ll be forever grateful to your help for saving a friend’s life. As for the outcome, let heaven decide!” I said.
After this meeting, I went back to the Philippines and stayed there for a few months. This first part of Wong’s story was written in our home in Manila.
The second part, or the outcome of Wong’s case, is continued below.
Some months later, after the Chinese New Year, I returned to China. It was near the end of winter and the air was still cool. I took a boat into Kaiping from Hong Kong. During the few hours on the boat, I reviewed in mind Wong’s case, Lok’s outlook on life, and Deng’s promise.
I must admit that every so often in the previous few months I had thought of Wong and I was eager to know if he was still alive. It meant a lot to me if our efforts had turned out positive.
Immediately after checking into my hotel, I went to find Frank and Lok. My first question to them was: “Is Wong still alive?” The answer was yes. I felt a wave of relief.
Then they told me that sometime before the National Day last year, a couple of policemen from the Provincial Security Bureau came to Kaiping to investigate Wong’s case. Apparently they told the local police or the court to commute the death sentence for both Wong and his wife, pending further investigation.
Shortly before October 1, 11 criminals from the local area were executed. Lok said it should have been 13, but somehow, Wong and his wife were spared. In other words, they had made it through the check point.
A voice inside my head was screaming: “Deng, you son of a bitch! You really did it. Thank you, thank you!!”
Both Wong and his wife were given life sentences and the opportunity to repay the government the money they spent in Macau in exchange for the death sentence. They were sent to different labor camps in north Guangdong.
Lok was rather optimistic about the whole thing. He felt that within a few years, Wong could maybe get out for being sick if someone would pay some money and make the arrangements. (It did not turn out that way.)
I reported on my meeting with Deng and Deng’s promise to make a phone call. We were all amazed at the power of that one phone call. It could only happen in China.
Many months later, during one of our drinking sessions with Deng, I asked him if he still remembered the Wong case. He said: “Yes, what happened to him?”
I told him both Wong and his wife were alive. They were now serving life sentences in labor camps.
Deng said: “Good! He did give me face! I had been wondering.”
It depressed me to think that it was more important to Deng that he was given face than that he had saved two lives, but then again, the lives were saved, and that was what mattered to me.
[A PS about Wong: he is back in Kaiping, a free man. He worked in the labor camp for about 15 years and was released. We have no other details.]